Dating a man who is divorced with children
You can only hope that eventually, she will stop comparing and accept you as a unique individual that you are. Your maturity Perhaps the biggest challenge of all is your own immaturity.Perhaps if you start comparing her to your ex-girlfriends, she’ll see how it feels to be compared to an Ex. You have to discover if you have what it takes to deal with the challenges that a divorced woman has in her life.
Those ex-husbands don’t want to see another man in the life of their children.This lack of closure leaves many divorced women feeling uncomfortable and incomplete with emotional wounds that never have an opportunity to heal.There are going to be times when you feel that your relationship is merely a substitute for what they really want.And so, this can make it difficult for you to be a leader in the relationship as every time you try to do something that she doesn’t like, she can pull out the divorce card and say, “But you don’t understand what I’ve been through, you haven’t experienced what I have.” Try to show your concern, but there are times you must insist on doing things your way, not for selfish reasons, but because you are convinced that you have chosen the best path for both of you.Make every effort for her to see that as she respects your decisions, you will take care of her concerns. You will always be compared to her Ex Sometimes her ex is really a terrific person and they have many accomplishments.