Dating conversation ideas
(appreciative)That picture of your dog cracked me up. (funny)I’ve found the best way of getting to know someone is over the phone and in person. (totally lame and pointless)LET’S REVIEWNotice how in the good example above the man seems friendly, respectful and confident all at the same time.
He has the balls to call her baby, but then lacks the confidence to ask for the first call.
By the way, this is probably a good time to mention that women do not like being called sweetie, honey, baby, sexy or whatever other gross shit you guys can think of this early in the process.
Save those terms for after its gotten serious and they will be appreciated. WORD TO THE WISEIf she opts to message you back instead of calling you, your goal remains getting her on the phone as soon as possible without being a dick about it.
THE ULTIMATE CONVERSATION STARTER(LIKELIEST TO QUICKLY LEAD TO A DATE)This shift in your approach will have you walking away feeling more positive about the interaction as opposed to disappointed and frustrated with your dating life. (makes sense)Let me know if you’d like to start with a chat! (confident in that he assumes she will call)Chad BAD EXAMPLEHey, baby. This is the man who gets to the first phone call in no time.
Call the chimney sweep and get your fireplace in working order. Obviously, she’s arrived at the conclusion that you don’t satisfy her expectations. Do not over evaluate or let it impact your self esteem.You can not, nor should you try to be everything to everyone.The sooner you move along, the less the impact will be from negative emotional reactions.Also, the stronger the chance of her reaching out to you in the future (should her expectations or her situation change). Adversely, pursuing someone in a different lane makes you a nuisance (door slams shut).