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In fact, I’ve been told by a contact helping me write this blog that doing your make up and working on your appearance is considered a sign of respect when you are going to meet up with someone.
In other words, how much effort you put into your image declares to that other person how much you value them.
Surprisingly, though, when it comes to relationships, I’ve always felt a bit uncomfortable with our conversations. men see pretty as a personality.” She said, her and my other co-teacher laughing in unison at the truth of the matter.
“But what if someone is pretty but a terrible person!? ” I asked, somewhat startled by the admittance of the superficiality.“If the woman is pretty, the man will make it work.” My other co-teacher said and her colleague announced, “Yeah, that’s right.” After some awkwardness we cleared the air with “Anyways, it’s different here.”Yeah. I have thought long and hard about that conversation, trying to understand why anyone would be so complacent about the fact that their husband may have chosen them for looks instead of their inner selves, but I’m always brought back to the ideas from discovering the motives behind the plastic surgery craze here – looks are important because they are not ashamed to admit that that is how they choose to judge one another.
Whether you’ve committed a murder and left your matching 뽀로로 watch behind or you’re walking around downtown Daegu wearing a matching outfit, your couple item declares to the world who you are dating in an instant.
In South Korea, couples are often seen adorning the as your girlfriend or boyfriend when you are out in public together.
” The awkwardness ensued instantly and I decided to come up with a quick excuse. ”Since that day, she has reported several anecdotes to me about expats meeting Korean women and staying here and getting married and having families.
Of course, it’s impossible to tell whether or not this is pervasive – relationships are unique in every aspect and shouldn’t be compared to one another, but in South Korea, there is such a desire for relationships that an abundance of them, especially those sought out at young ages, tend to head in the direction of appearance over substance. And when does marriage and serious commitment come into play? “Obviously people date who they are attracted to, but that isn’t the main reason why people date each other.
Koreans love hearing about people being in relationships, and they love being in them too (for the most part).
But what’s always interested me about this obsession with relationship culture is where the depth lies.
In one particular episode, when inspecting the scene of the crime, one of the players discovers a 뽀로로 (PO-RO-RO) watch on the ground.
뽀로로, for those of you that are unaware, is an animated Korean penguin who has his own show and is highly popular among children but is also considered super 귀워요 (cute) by many adults.